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Monday. I was thinking earlier, when a person who loves you hurts you, knowing that they are hurting you, what’s the normal procedure?
Do you put the other cheek and tolerate all their punches with the hope that they’ll stop at one point? Or you fight back?

I’m confused. I think I tried both options and none of them works. If you stay there to take the punches, you are seen as a doormat. If you fight back, there is a big chance that the person gets mad at you. But if you don’t put a limit things can get out of control.

What’s the right thing to do?
Maybe trying to stop the punches in the air and hug the person very tight. Tell the person there is no need to be mean and hurt and that it doesn’t matter how dark things seem right now, they’ll get better.

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