A Few Things I’ve Learned From Trauma

Don't Lose Hope

This is the big, scary truth about trauma: there is no such thing as “getting over it.” The five stages of grief model marks universal stages in learning to accept loss, but the reality is in fact much bigger: a major life disruption leaves a new normal in its wake. There is no “back to the old me.” You are different now, full stop.” – Catherine Woodiwiss

Here are a few things I’ve learned about trauma:

1. Trauma upends everything. It undermines your whole reality. Everything is open to question now.

2. Life doesn’t go back to the way it was before – and neither do you.

3. Trauma is disfiguring. At least for a while, it turns you into someone you do not recognize. You lose your spark and sparkle. You withdraw from life. You experience the symptoms of PTSD. You feel you’re going crazy. That you’re losing your…

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5 thoughts on “A Few Things I’ve Learned From Trauma

  1. Beautiful. One of the most profound realisations I had during counselling was that there will be no “magical happy ending” where I am fully healed, only a long process of learning to live with my wounds and tend to them until they become merely scars. The process is the happy ending.

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    1. Yes, it makes it so much easier when we take the pressure off ourselves and allow ourselves to simply have scars. It’s not what we expected or wanted but we have survived 🙂 Thanks for sharing your experience, too.

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